Throughout the night, I checked his temperature many many times and its still 39 degree. That morning, his temperature spiked up until 40 again and so we rush him to Hospital Ampang to get him checked. Doctor said he got a bit of infection on his throat that he might've swallowed it and that's why he vomited too. And he will experience diarrhea too. His temperature subsided on the 3rd day, just struggling with flu and cough.
While waiting for our number to be called at Hospital Ampang. Harris doesnt like kool fever though and usually tear it off his forehead but y'know when he let it stay patched, you know he's so sick.
On Friday, we both took Emergency Leave because it seems that I cant handle Harris alone. And husband have to be on standby in case Harris's temperature spikes up again so he could quickly bring us to the hospital. Its hard to put Harris to sleep because he felt restless.
While waiting for hubs inside the car after we collected my credit card. Harris's temperature is normal, just left with flu and coughing. Hence, his watery eyes.
Harris raised up the wet wipes he managed to pull out with so much pride and joy when I asked for a photo together.
On Sunday, I'm starting to catch a bit of flu, but I shrugged it off and I know its normal since I might catch it from Harris and also because I easily got infected because I didnt get much rest while struggling with Harris's fever. But we still go out to KLCC to collect my credit card and it was a short trip since Harris still down with a bit of flu and I'm starting to feel quiet restless.
Monday is when I started to feel aching on my leg and damn the new office rules sucks. We have to turn on the aircond to a certain temperature and you know what, I have TWO aircond that is directly at me, so yeah, I was freezing. I am starting to feel very sick with flu and shivering. On Tuesday, I still went to work because I have loads of pending work and I didnt want to get anymore MC. But I checked my temperature every now and then I am down with fever. I thought I'll get better on Wednesday, because y'know fever subsides after few days, supposedly, but it didnt. On Wednesday morning, I went to work with aching body, flu & headache. I thought of wanting to go to the clinic in the evening but I couldnt take it so I went to take the slip & head straight to the clinic.
Soo&Tan Clinic are always full of people though, thank God its not too cold there. But waiting when sick is pretty much excruciating. My time comes near an hour later. Doctor checked my throat but there's no irritation, but its my 3rd day and still high fever at 39 degree. So he had to check for Influenza A and I am positive for it. So he wanted to prescribe me with meds which will cost me a lot and 5 days MC. I asked him if I could ask for referral letter and asked to be admitted since I have to be quarantined. Might as well if I use my insurance right. Also because I've read about influenza A before, some people need to be admitted since its very infectious.
So consulted my mom and my insurance agent and I ordered Grab to go straight home. Thank god I didnt faint because y'know, I really am so tired. My mom picked me up from my house and straight bring me to Gleneagles. My insurance agent advised me to go to Prince Court but we thought Gleneagles is much closer to my house so we went there instead. I was warded and to avoid my baby from being infected, because the effect will be much worst to baby instead.
Referring to my insurance, I am only eligible for a two bedded ward but since AIA is a corporate client for Gleneagles, I am eligible to request for a single luxury ward at no extra cost. Also because I need to be quarantined and isolated from other patients.
I was warded for 4 days 3 nights because the doc insisted me to be warded longer up until I feel much much better. Well, at least until my fever subsides and no more terrible flu and cough which the virus could be easily transmitted to other people. I asked to be discharged on Saturday because I was feeling much better and I missed my baby so much. I was not allowed to see him. It was excruciating. I didnt get much rest though because the room is too cold, they have to keep the aircond cold all the time to disinfect all viruses. 3 nights of sleeping alone, and in coldness. I was quite worried because I never spent a night without Harris. We never prepare him for such routines. So on the first night, hubs was struggling. That night when he picked up Harris, when Harris reach home, he went into all rooms searching for me, and he be calling Mama Mama. And when he realized I'm not home, he started crying. He rejected formula milk and fell asleep while crying. Hubs have to video call me while putting Harris to sleep. As much as I know Harris finds it hard to understand, I still explains to him slowly saying that I got admitted in urgent and emergency so I wasnt really prepare everyone for this. That morning, hubs video call me again saying Harris been crying all night searching for me. Damn, I cried. I didnt ask for this sickness baby.
So on 2nd night, hubs was starting to not feel well, probably due to lack of sleep and running errands here and there, juggling between work, house chores, a child. But.... y'now, that's what I've been doing the whole time, right? Not enough sleep, EVERY DAY but still rushes to work, and do house chores. But I adapted myself. Well, its subjective. Some people finds it hard. I find myself a strong woman I guess? Ha ha. Just saying.
Anyway, for 2nd night, we left Harris with Kakna since hubs is also swamped with work. Alhamdulillah, Harris really is a blissful child. He clings to us most of the time and always shows a bit of manja-ness with us but he really not a hassle to others. When people took care of him, he often got praises because he's such a good baby. He is easy to take care. Kakna doesnt have problem putting him to sleep too. I am a proud mummy.
On the 3rd night (Friday night), mama called me saying they want to pick up Harris and take care of Harris for one night since the next day is Saturday. And again, Harris have been such a good baby, easy to take care. And not high maintenance, at all.
On Saturday, I am keen to discharge. Doctor said I can be discharged but still be in MC up until Monday. He offered me for more but I said no because I have loads of pending work. To discharge, it took a couple of hours for my insurance to settle all my bills. Alhamdulillah, we only need to pay RM20 for the medical report only. My bill costed nearly 4k but all settled by my insurance. Alhamdulillah. We went straight to Pasar Malam to get dinner but I stayed in the car because I am still under quarantine. Then we went home, arrived around Maghrib then we had dinner and I rested. I am still not feeling quiet well.
They sent me photos of Harris, using Asu's clothes since they ran out of his clothes. Hahaha so cute! Then around 9pm, hubs went to pick up Harris from my parents house. When they got home, husband put him in the living room and I shouted for Harris's name, and he quickly crawl to the sound of my voice, finds me inside the bedroom and he be calling Mama few times. I quickly ran to the toilet because I forgot to wash my hands, then he cried while chasing me, and I rushed to pick him up. MAMA MISSED YOU SO MUCH ! I dont care even if he called me Mama, its still for me.
On Sunday, we just stayed home, spent so much time with Harris. Hubs took care of Harris most of the time because I still cant get close to him. I just do chores and cook for hubs. He's been doing so much for me and Harris and I am so grateful for him.
Just gonna share you the room I got.
This is me at emergency ward, while waiting for my insurance to be approved and to be warded. I was shivering cold so I had to cover my whole body and face. Mama accompanied me. I didnt even realize when they took my blood, I was too weak. They run me under check for dengue too, just to double check.
View from my room.
The room is very luxurious, and cold too! Everybody have to wear mask when they enter my room and have to sanitize themselves once they exit. I spent most of the time watching tv because I have exactly nothing to do. Doc check twice a day and nurses come often to check my temperature, my blood pressure, my pulse and also to give me medications. I was on drip for two days and my veins still hurt until now. I asked to be off drip after that because I am starting to feel better, just have to hydrate myself more often. If not, doc will get me on drip again. Being on drip is a hassle because you have to keep calling the nurse to plug and unplug it when I need to go to the loo. Mind you, being under drip, you will feel to pee like many many time.
The toilet is nice too. Its big, convenient for sick people and they clean the toilet daily. And I'm just too lazy to upload the photo here.
Always my favorite view, of Harris munching on Ayam Goreng. Hehe.
Upon reaching home, I still need to wear mask because I am still infectious up until 7-8 days from the day I showed symptom. On Monday, I asked hubs to send Harris to Kakna because I am still under quarantine and I dont want to be clinging to Harris so much with this flu. Because Harris's still got a bit of flu and cough. He's pretty much very exposed to the virus.
I started working the next day, still have flu. And I dont think I'll be better from it because the office is so cold! And you know what, many people are so scared now but they cant do anything about it because rules are rules. And they all went to the clinic once they showed symptom because we never knew who got infected while I was in the office.
I prepared myself even better this time. Socks on, shoes & I wear pashmina to warm my neck and always with my sweater. Even so, I am still so cold! And I make sure that I wear mask to keep my nose warm. I am still under medication for flu, my antibiotic is finished already so I hope I could better soon, in sha Allah.
And its been a while since I weigh myself and I think the last time was few months back. And I weighed 57kg back then. And now, I weighed 52.8kg. I lost nearly 4kg! No wonder people keep saying I look skinnier. Its just that I get that remarks quite often but I never showed much obvious weight loss on the scale, but now I am. No wonder all clothes are so loose on me. And even with fever, my appetite still okay, I eat like normal people do. I mean, I've always ate so much pun.
Well probably because I am breastfeeding so Harris took so much of me. As long as mummy's boy growing so well.
So the overall cost for my admission was nearly 4k and all settled by insurance. Alhamdulillah. Now looking forward to eat more vitamin C and hydrate myself well and to getting better. I have to build my immune system.
Now onto my piled up work.
Wasalam. Love, Nina M.
